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Sorry to have to say that this part of the web site has been closed due to huge amounts of stupid spam. It will be working again as soon as I get new software installed.
 Association cracking the CSA/CMEC
Posted By Maurice and Sherri Barnett On 11/25/09
Any father going through the draconian clasps of the run for profit company trading as the Child Support Agency may like to take a look at our site www.deadbeatdadsassociation.co.uk
 Solicitors Regulation Authority
Posted By Rob On 11/25/09
There's not much you can do about a dodgy solicitor. My ex's solicitor wrote "we would not recommend mediation to our client", which is completely against the code of practice for family solicitors. The SRA found them not guilty because they had not written that they had recommended their client not to go to mediation. Certainly a fine difference! So by all means report malpractice to the SRA but don't expect much.
Marriage problems.
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
What do you do when you suspect the worst.
Domestic violence.
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
You have been a victim. Remember that domestic violence and contradiction of court orders are for most people the only 2 grounds for getting Legal Aid, so you can play this card. But be careful and do not get the police involved because especially the Domestic Violence Unit will normally arrest any man in the vicinity and label the woman as "victim"
 Added By Rob On 11/25/09
Interestingly the support service for abused men AMEN (www.amen.ie) recommends that abused men stay in their house and protect the children. This is in contrast to the advice on www.womensaid.org.uk which is that an abused woman should leave leave immediately and take the kids!
Womens Aid
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
and Legal Aid generally
Home Rights Orders
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
......
Divorce paperwork
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Any tips on filling in the forms?
Arrangements for Children
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Remember that the amount you are giving away in divorce settlement is small compared to that you will have to pay in Child Maintenence, so fight for your children from the beginning!
CafCass
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
and other social workers
Form E
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
And the appendix to Form E and how to influence it, for example, take a 6 month mortgage holiday during the proceedings and let the cash you save dissapear
The FDR at Court
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Bartering
Residence orders
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
What are they and why do women confuse them with natural parental rights?
The CSA:
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Incredibly biased, official terror and institutionalized sexism
Added By Rob On 12/03/09
Never pay any cash "interim arrangements" as the CSA will force you to pay it again. They will collect back payments even after the children have turned 20 or older, they will even collect it from your estate if you have died in the meantime!! I warn you because the CSA plan to go over to a "gross salary" payment assessment soon, meaning men will have to pay MUCH MORE, so there will be much arguement about arrears!!!!
HMRC
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Child Benefit and tax credits. Cracking HMRC is tough as they regard themselves as exempt from the Freedom of Information Act
Tribunals etc
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
Tribunals and I'll keep The Independent Case Examiner and the Information Commissioner in this thread for now.
She breaks the Contact Order
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
What can you do? You should be able to get Legal Aid, but for safety complete an EX160 Fees Remission form as well.
The GP and others take her side
Posted By Rob On 11/24/09
How to change their mind: serve both the GP and the PCT with a SD74 from your jobcenter. You need to serve both parties (i.e. school and LEA or GP and PCT) or they will only blame each other and slip out of it
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